
The request was clear and direct: “Please don’t talk about philosophy!” Then, as if to emphasize the urgency and importance of what she was asking, she added, “Philosophy is bad for my son!” And just in case I hadn’t understood, this mother continued, “Ever since my son started reading philosophy, he no longer wants to believe what he used to believe.”
That was the reaction (respectable and understandable, to be sure) of a mother concerned about her son’s intellectual and mental well-being (his age was never mentioned, but he was clearly old enough to venture into thinking for himself). Like any other protective mother, this mother wanted to spare her son from the difficulties of encountering new ideas.
It all began with a brief message I posted on a well-known social media platform. I assumed it was something generic and of little importance. I also assumed that, as happens with most of my other posts, no one would read it, much less respond or react. But apparently, saying “philosophy” generates all kinds of reactions.
Briefly and with sincere respect, I thanked this mother for her message, emphasizing her clear love for her son. At the same time, I mentioned that “philosophy” has many meanings and can be understood in different ways, not all of them negative. I then added that my message was based on my academic studies in philosophy.
An unexpected reply followed. The mother, also in a respectful tone, “reminded” me that, according to the Christian scriptures (Colossians 2), philosophy is deception, vanity, a useless tradition. Therefore, it is not only something that cannot be discussed, but it should also not even be mentioned.
I thanked this lady once again for her words, and that was the end of our exchange. My gratitude was sincere for two obvious reasons. First, I was able to understand the perspective from which this mother was speaking. Second, it led me to reflect that, many times, what we consider “thinking” is, in fact, a sophisticated form of self-deception.
I do not know, of course, what kind of philosophy or which philosophers this woman’s son was reading. Perhaps he was reading The Concept of Anxiety by Kierkegaard, Thus Spoke Zarathustra by Nietzsche, or Being and Nothingness by Sartre. That juxtaposition of existentialism and nihilism can be difficult to handle without proper preparation.
Or perhaps he was reading self-help books disguised as philosophy—like the many books that present superficial versions of ancient Stoicism, reducing Stoic thought to mere “slogans” and Stoic practices to stress-relief techniques. Be that as it may, the young man was reading and thinking enough to alarm his mother.
Therefore, I ask, should philosophers fall silent because someone begins to think for themselves? Is not the cultivation of critical thinking a necessary condition for maturity and autonomy? Is it really so easy to label as “deceptive” and “useless” everything we disagree with?






